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THE STRENGTH OF A MAN...It isn't in how many women he's loved but it's in whether he can be true to the ONE woman he's trying to love.
It isn't seen in the width of his shoulders but it's seen in the width of his arms that encircle and protect you.
It isn't in the deep tone of his voice but it is in the gentle words he whispers. It isn't in the words he speaks but it's in how he keeps his word.
It isn't in how hard he hits but it's in how tender he touches. It isn't in the weight he can lift but it's in the burdens he can carry.
It isn't in the hair on his chest but it's in his heart that lies within his chest. It isn't in how he makes love but it's in the understanding that there is more way to making love, than just making love for fun himself.
"Sex is dirty only when it's done right." (Woody Allen quote printed on Vintage Erotic Art, Picture of Nude Woman)
MEN, MEN, MENIt's a mixed feeling when someone a couple of years younger than I am called me "Aunty"... especially from the opposite sex. What do young chaps see in women our age today? Maturity? Intelligence? Financial stability? Sense of humor? Luscious experiences? Motherly status???? I laughed to myself. On the contrary, I have been LABELLED as "a young woman with bad experiences striving to be back on track but still lack of insight....." from older men. I'm still laughing to myself. Men!?! Can't live with them or can't live without??
IT'S HOW WE RESPOND...
Everyone possesses a powerful, innate, psychological drive to love and to be loved. This drive alone motivates us to do all kinds of silly and irrational things in order to attract, connect and bond with someone to share our lives with. One thing that has always served us well is our ability to look reality right smack in our eyes! Life is always throwing out surprises that test our patience and try our nerves. Take a moment to think about how your are going to address some unhappy or unfortunate situation today. When all is said and done, it’s not what happens to us that charts our course and shapes our character…it’s how we RESPOND that does! Nobody escapes the harsh realities of this life, but some do deal with it better than others. Are you one of those people who allow life or other people to dictate your mood and set your emotional temperature? The only thing worse than suffering through the anguish is not having learned anything from it. LET GO & RETRIEVE FREEDOMIt has almost been four years yet I am feeling like a newborn at the edge of forty year-old. Have we not punished ourselves enough?? What if I have another forty more years to breathe or merely four days?? I would definitely not choose to live remorsefully.... Time heals, believe it & it will. Thanks to my mentors who have shared with me how they had survived their traumatised experiences. Letting go of the grudges has rewarded me the FREEDOM I have been yearning for all these years. At least take the chances, trials & errors, you will be amazed at the harvest. TRAPPEDI had a dream. Walked into a room full of fantasies!! There, a Knight stood tall with a sword in his right hand & a book in his left. He spoke words of wisdom, so charming yet so elusive. He has spiked me so wisely amongst other preys. The more he speaks, the more I feel trapped & suffocated. It was me, I know. I'm too weak in the curse of his mighty words. I felt I had been stripped. So ashamed with my ignorant nudity. CHAUVINISMBeing submissive is just a salute for someone respectable. If one abuses the honor, it's like many still believe sex is an appetiser to men, but unaware that MANY women today have treated it as desserts. Isn't it a matter of fidelity? Life's ups & downs could change a person overnight, it's only wise not to fall for such chauvinism.
Appreciate those who sit next to you silently listening to your breathing. They may not agree to every word you are uttering but simply making you feel good about yourself by being there. GULLIBILITY
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