It’s beside the point if I am literately smart enough to put my life into words, but seriously, many have more traumatized lives than I have. The severe insomnia had kept me wide awake at night for years. Sourced from one event after another, heartbreak, career failure, financial commitment, pressure from family and peers, heart-wretched miscarriage, marital infidelity, loss of respect from loved ones, loss of communication from friends due to distance, etc. etc.. Divorce has finally built up my self-confidence back in the workforce after 5 years of detachment; won the custody of my child. I’m not saying that I’m proud of my divorce, but I value the lessons from it and am learning to improve myself as I believe I was partly the culprit for the failure. It’s about our willingness to learn from life’s ups and downs, how we want to live to be remembered, for this fragile & transitory lifetime, isn't it??